Don’t you think all of that is arbitrary? Why are tattoos more masculine “unless you pick feminine designs”? Where does the judgement of feminine/ not feminine come from in the first place?
That is exactly what I’m talking about, it IS all incredily arbitrary. But apparently even in queer spaces like this, people perceive (most) ear piercings as feminine.
Don’t you think all of that is arbitrary? Why are tattoos more masculine “unless you pick feminine designs”? Where does the judgement of feminine/ not feminine come from in the first place?
That is exactly what I’m talking about, it IS all incredily arbitrary. But apparently even in queer spaces like this, people perceive (most) ear piercings as feminine.