Any time I go to a large city im exhausted by being charged for doing anything. How do people have fun if theyre poor(the neat part, you dont, probably). And to make it worse many of them probably have a 1 bedroom apartment so its not like you can sit in there all day long (at least i cant).
I realize im still spending money by being in my house out of town, but still, at least things I buy are owned by me, and im not paying someone else every time I want to do anything. If I want to stay at home all day I have tons of stuff to occupy my mind without going nuts.
I figure 98% of lemmy users live in big cities so id like to hear this perspective!
Get a bike that you can bring in your car. Park in a neighborhood or other area with free parking, get on the bike and just go exploring. It is a great way to learn about cool and often free stuff going on. If you can use transit and bring a bike, that’s even better.
I’ve watched expensive music shows from a nearby parking garage using this technique. Outdoor music venues often can’t stop the music from escaping into the nearby blocks.
Find a hobby that is easy to do in a park or other public space.
All the best free stuff is usually on the margins, so it takes some recon to figure out what is worth your time. But that’s part of the adventure of exploring a city.