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  • I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    So, you said you’re about 60ish. The rules have absolutely changed in even just the last 20 years. It is rude to compliment someone on something they don’t have control over, i.e. their height, their face, their figure, anything like that. It’s fine to complement people on things they do have control over: tattoos, clothing, hairstyle, a talent they’ve obviously been working on.

    You were maybe not aware that it’s no longer OK to comment on peoples bodies for any reason, so it didn’t occur to you to be careful with your language when expressing that you liked the tattoos that were visible when she was unclothed. And also that even though the combination of body and tattoos is what was particularly striking that that’s not an OK thing to talk about in any context really, especially in a setting meant to be a safe space for people to be nude.

    This reminds me of a time in a social activism space when a dear sweet gentleman in his 80s was making a very good, valid, thoughtful point but unfortunately, used the word “Negroes” when he obviously should’ve said Black people. He was corrected in a very unkind manner and it became a whole thing. He felt terrible, he meant no harm, but he said the wrong thing in the wrong place at the wrong time.

    It doesn’t make you a bad person. It was a social faux pas. You will cringe when you think of it, but who doesn’t have those little gems stored away in their pockets.



  • They meant that most people who have herpes don’t know it. It’s very common to have it and never have noticeable symptoms. You can find it with a blood test, but most doctors won’t give you the test because, what’s the point?

    67% of the world population has HSV1 and 13% of the world population has HSV2. HSV1 is usually oral, but can cause genital herpes HSV2 is usually genital but can also cause oral herpes. That’s 80% of the population so yeah pretty much everyone in their cat. Also, cats can get herpes but that’s a different thing.








  • I have both of those sliding styles in my house. Kitchen windows are all side sliding, and are as wide as all other vertical sliding windows in the house are tall.

    Except the bathroom, that one is half as tall as the tall ones/half as wide as the wide ones, it slides vertically.

    All vertical sliding windows have the opening at the bottom, all horizontal sliding windows have the opening on the right.

    West coast, USA.