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greenhorn@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•XC Running: Does anyone else's parents do this?
9·2 months agoMy uncle is really critical of his kids athletic abilities (as well as his own), and they are now really negative about their own abilities, and my uncle doesn’t understand why they don’t want to try. I golfed with my cousin today (my uncle in the group behind) and I made it a point to compliment him and have a good time, and he golfed better than normal—not necessarily as good as his inner critic wanted—and had more fun golfing with family than normal. Positive reinforcement always seems more effective to me in helping people grow to meet their hopes and expectations, there are other times to have grounding conversations about whether their hopes and expectations are realistic or attainable, but not when they’re eager and trying.
They have the budget for printer ink tho
greenhorn@lemmy.worldto
Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Someone should start a Youtube channel that showcases moments throughout history where, someone fucked around, and then found out.
8·3 months agoKinda the Cautionary Tales podcast


Rent parties are back! Just without the jazz, and food, and booze, and community… But at least it’s monetized for a tech CEO! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rent_party