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  • I feel the person you responded to worded that poorly. I think it’d be more apt to say you’re not obliged to approach someone you find unattractive, and I’d agree. If your goal is romantic or sexual in nature and attraction is a requirement for you, approaching someone you aren’t attracted to is a waste of time. The key point here though, is that shouldn’t change your approach. It should just narrow down who you approach. Especially for someone introverted, I don’t fault them for wanting to optimize their approach strategy given their limited social battery.



  • You should only “cold approach” people in a setting you would want to be cold approached by a random guy. And yes I mean you as a presumably hetero male being approached by another male for the same purpose. If you wouldn’t like it, assume others wouldn’t like it.

    If you were at some singles event, that’d likely be okay as that’s the purpose. If you’re at the gym for instance, I’d presume you wouldn’t like it.